If you are one of those people who have always wondered about Phone Sex, then this article is for you. I am going to explain what phone sex is and why it is way more fun than traditional sex. First off, you need to realize that you can not hear what is going on in a phone sex session. Therefore, make sure you have someone else on the line. Also, listen very closely to what your partner wants to say and what they will be doing. Then, pick up the phone and begin.
Phone Sex does not have to involve any fantasy at all. Phone Sex can be as real as you make it. There are many reasons that people do not do phone sex and it has everything to do with not being comfortable with the idea of phone sex. Listen very closely to what your partner wants to say and be open to their desires. Phone Sex is amazing, especially when you are in private and then you can finish the conversation as you please.
Phone Sex allows you to enjoy the intimacy of a real conversation without worrying about little things like long distance charges, inconvenient time zones, or having to drive somewhere. Phone Sex can be a great way for you and your partner to build intimacy and even sexual tension. If you and your partner are close, Phone Sex can lead into Phone Sex. It can also lead into something more steamy such as a steamy phone call!
Some of the reasons people do not try Phone Sex are: they either do not want to sound like a pervert, they do not like to feel vulnerable, or they feel self-conscious. Listen very carefully to your partner and pay attention to what they say. Just because you are talking on the phone does not mean that you can not talk dirty. In fact, the more you practice phone sex the more of those hidden fantasies you will find!
Now listen closely to your partner and see if they say anything that would lead you to try real life fantasy after real life. You may want to try some variations on “dirty talk” that you have not tried before. You can also try some new “hot stuff” but keep in mind that just saying things like, “harder” or faster” are not real life options. These are just examples, you may say things that are more or less similar, but these should not be taken literally. Pay attention to your partner and make sure that they are getting what you are saying the way you think it should be taken.
One good way to make sure you and your partner get the right amount of “real life” Phone Sex is to send each other flirty text messages on a daily or weekly basis. This is a great way to communicate with one another and get to know one another a little bit better. You could also take the next step and actually call your partner one or two times per day and either talk a little bit more, or talk a little bit longer. Try talking for a little bit longer than you normally do in an attempt to really get to know one another without being too intimate. After a short period of time you should both feel a little bit more comfortable if you decide to take the next step and start a real conversation.
Another great way to make sure you get the most out of your Phone Sex is to download flirty text images of your own to use on your partner. Many people do not realize that text images are even more effective at arousing you then say something like, “harder”. Text, images send out subconscious messages that are much more powerful than words ever could be. The images are usually pictures but can be videos or even audio. All you have to do is decide which ones you find the most erotic and then save them to your phone. When you text your partner these sexy little images they will be hard pressed to not respond to you.
To recap, if you want to really have some flirty text lovemaking with your partner, try using some of the techniques we have mentioned above. The idea is to make sure that you get your partner all hot and bothered so you can finally let the ‘S&M’ come to a head. By using flirty text love making and setting up the environment right, you will be well on your way to a wonderful night of Phone Sex!